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~Katie~

hey hey now people! why am i always brought into your fights? I DID NOT say you dont care about others!!!!!!! thats a bunch of bs! the only thing i have said was what we talked about the other day! which you and i know what it was! and i still feel that way but that doesnt mean i dont still love you and want the best for you! I hope ur life starts looking upward mama! LUVS

Posted by ~Katie~ on Saturday, January 17, 2009 - 11:14 AM
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.:♥{Sittin☆Pretti}♥:.

Well i have been here with you through a lot of this shit. And all i can say is that you need to get rid of ALL the trash that is around you. He said she said bullshit is just down right fuckin stupid. Don't know who to trust and just don't fuckin care. You know who your true friends are. And they are the ones that will stick with you no matter what. You need something and they will try their best to help. You got something going on and are pissed off at it. They will be right next to your side just as pissed and finding ways to help. Regardless if you are right or wrong. Because that is a true friend. And damn it women. You know i got your back. :o)So fuck the haters and just be you.


Posted by .:♥{Sittin☆Pretti}♥:. on Saturday, January 17, 2009 - 2:12 PM
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ღStricklandღ

Irregardless of what was said, it would seem that the only time discussion happens is when I'm involved. I specifically told him, I didn't need him running around to text anyone about my problems and it would seem even after he agreed not to, he did anyway. All the more reason to cut him out of my life, I don't need a 15 year old running around to tell the school my problems. They're no one's business but my own, and if I choose to vent to my friends, and include them, and use them as a sounding board, that's my business, and my choice. Next time I'll be sure to be careful who I choose to speak to, because apparently there's some loose lips out there. I am going through a very rough time right now, I don't need to be talked at, preached to, or told I don't have a right to be angry about a situation. Which seems to be some people's preferred method of communication. Those who are there day in and day out, and know the recent revelations understand why I was mad int he first place, and understand the long trial Chris and I have in front of us. Those who love and support us, have done just that, they have tried to wrap their arms around us, and let their thoughts and prayers be our guide. Lisa, you're right I have seen my true friends, and they're in the comments on my page, and the phone calls of support, and the messages of hopes that it will all work out, and the inspiration of keeping my head up and fighting for what I want and who I love. Thank you all again for the support you have given, it has been the one thing to keep my head on straight. I appreciate the shoulders to cry on, the words on encouragement, and the thoughts and prayers of things working out. It is greatly appreciated.


Posted by ღStricklandღ on Saturday, January 17, 2009 - 2:38 PM
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**And the subsequent emails:
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ~Katie~
Date: Jan 17, 2009 3:37 PM


im not replying back to the blog bc in all honesty i dont really think its a conversation for all to see and put their word in on. your acting like i dont care about you or never have. i HAVE been there for you and HAVE been an ear for you to talk to whenever you have needed it. I agree you shuld get Ron out of your life as i have told you like a million times!!!!! I understand there are feelings but honey hes not the only person who was there for you with everything. as far as i know so was lisa right? so ditch ron and work on you and chris, cause as much as he says he doesnt care that you talk i would imagine he probably does even if just a little bit. Tonya, you first loved me bc of my honesty and if you want to hate me in the end bc of it then thats fine. I know you need people there for you and i never EVER said i wouldnt be there for you. I just think it's not helping to blame everything on others and maybe in the heat of the moment your getting a little irrational. But thats you honey, thats who you are and what you do. which is fine. i knew that from day one. but you also knew im blunt and honest. so i disagree with you ONE time. It's up to you Tonya you can pretend like im some horrible person who hasnt been there for you and get rid of the "trash" in your life. or you can actually talk to me and quit being mad. Bc your complaining about he said she said stuff but thats exactly what you did when you were mad at me... you went to Ron and talked about OUR conversation. which is fine I know that you needed to vent.
But dont act like I did something wrong if you do the same thing!
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ღStricklandღ
Date: Jan 17, 2009 4:10 PM


First I am not responsible for what other people respond, and I am not going to apologize for a friend defending me when she feels it's needed.
Second, I am not mad you disagreed, I am mad about your tact. I am not blaming everyone else for my problems, because if I were, Chris is more than willing to take the fall for all of this, and agreeing with him that this is all his fault is a hell of a lot easier than fighting with him as to why it's not. What I am blaming Bob for is the way in which he is full boar attacking Chris, he has now brought Lorin into it, he has now questioned Chris on several other things and threatened him with eviction with or without me there. So yes, I am blaming Bob for gunning for Chris, for whatever reason. I am also blaming Bob for using his lease to his advantage and forgetting the fact that all his monies gained from that lease are to be IN the lease not added at his discretion, and per his OWN words without 30 days notice. I have a right to do that. There is a way in which you treat people, and there is a way you do not, and he is on the wrong side of the tracks with the way he treats people.
My point about you and Ron talking was that according to him you two have not spoken in weeks, until you and I had an issue. Him and I have been talking as normal the past few days, and he called on Monday asking to go to lunch. He asked me to go to Vegas or Cedar this weekend instead of the hotel, and that's where the conversation about the fight came from. And the day before I believe when I talked to him about what he thought about Chris cheating. He asked why, and said no he didn't believe he was. I said what you said gave me pause, then the next day with the Bob story. I had enough. The difference is, Ron and I talked about more than just you, and according to him and your own words, that's the only thing you two talked about was the whatever between you and I. I didn't "go" to him to talk about our conversation, and every time he asks what's going on in your world I tell him it's not my place to say. That if he wanted to know he'd ask you.
You and I both know we're being played by him, we're too smart of women not to. He talks shit about you to me, and he talks shit about me to you. Then he goes to us and says she said this this and this.
What's more you have a whole hell of a lot of nerve to try and call me out on being "mad at you" for doing something I'm doing as well, when you're jumping on my shit about what Chris and I did to Bob, and you'd have called the police, when YOU have an animal and more than who's on your lease in YOUR apartment. Talk about the pot calling the kettle black sweetie. And THAT is what chapped my ass, NOT you disagreeing with me.
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ~Katie~
Date: Jan 17, 2009 4:23 PM


look its this simple. you wanna be mad at me then be mad. u wanna treat me like shit then treat me like shit. what ever makes u feel better at the end of your day. as for me, you havent been the greatest friend. everything is completely about you and i really cant count the ammount of times you have bailed on me. so as for now i think its a great idea if we part ways. true friends can bicker and then come back and say u know what ... who cares.. were still friends.. but apparently thats not the case here. best wishes in the future.
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ღStricklandღ
Date:
Jan 17, 2009 4:35 PM Subject:
RE: ...
Body:
Think what you like, you made your points, and I was making mine. To me, that's what 'bickering' is. I'm sorry that I had strep throat New Years, you didn't come anyway. I'm sorry I didn't know our plans for Vegas were solid, and that I put my kids first. Yeah, MY kids, I recall the comment of you telling me that I'm not their mom yet. Yes, I am. I am in relationship with Chris and the first time I see them I am not going to bail, and it's not like YOU came to me and said you were upset. YOU waited how long? Again, don't jump my shit for the same shit you do. I would love to know how I have not been the greatest friend. Please enlighten me. I have never ignored your calls, not answered your texts, or not been there when Ben called, or Ryan turned to Jekyll. Trust when I say it is not always about me, do I have a lot of shit going on in my life right now, you bet. Would I like to be able to sit on my ass and just worry about what to feed Ryder today, peas or bananas. You bet, but for whatever reason, right now, I can't. So now cutting the drama from my life is the first step, and that drama is Ron. You want that cut to be you too, that's your choice. However you had a chance to speak your mind, I chose to speak mine too. Somehow to me, that only seemed fair, but whatever floats your boat chick.

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Chris is going to the base to get drunk all night tonight, with his friend Matt. My mom and I yet again just got into a fight. Damn me for being dead on that if I said just hold me I doubt he would. Fanfuckingtastic.